As we slip-slide our way into winter, the fluctuations are remarkable. The thermometer toggles between mild and frigid, then back to mild, then frigid, while the only constant is the early darkness.
By evening, the streetlights guide us to ‘The Back Nine’, a sports bar in Pittsford, NY. The fare is a bit high but the atmosphere is classy, and we fit the bill with our khakis, pullover sweaters and ‘Curious George’ sweatshirt (2 of 3 isn’t bad). We opted for the quiet air of the backroom where our own conversation was audible… and our fashions were not a distraction.
Unbeknownst to us, as we clinked our glasses and huddled in conversation, The Back Nine would be closing within days of this evening’s beer fest, if one beer qualifies as a ‘fest’. It’s a disappointment, we enjoyed our two visits here, on ‘Bar Night’, and looked forward to returning, upscaling our outings a bit.
There are many reasons why an establishment shutters its doors, but a watering hole in a classy town, closing? A bit of a surprise and made me think, ‘was it something we said’?
The closing certainly wasn’t due to rowdiness, we’re a docile group and any swaying or tippiness was a result of our age and equilibrium, not too many drinks. Was it our overheard conversations that intimidated patrons and discouraged them from returning? The mention of the world’s ant population outweighing humans, or insects dying at alarming rates or mollusks having eyes, may have been inappropriate for a crowd looking for something less cerebral on their ‘bar night’?
Soaring property assessments and declining school performances maybe was too staid for the ears of the common bar fly. Did we discuss the genius of Churchill and Aristotle too loudly for a drinking crowd?
The problem for bars that accept small bands of Seniors is that we don’t drink much, we talk too loud and our topics are extrapolated from editorial pages of the NYT or WSJ, instead of the Sporting News or NASCAR weekly. We may be haughty and tend to bloviate. We are polite to a fault but can be pompous…and we wear curious clothing. We are Seniors, you know.
It’s about time for another gathering. We’ll go back to our favorite ‘dive’, where every spot is loud and the patrons don’t care what we say, the crappy music is too loud to hear anything, and a dog walks among us. The cheap beer will guarantee the doors will always swing wide…
…a Curious George sweatshirt will be a welcome attraction!
“Education is the best provision for old age” Aristotle
Steve
Srbottch.com
Jan 2018
Amen!!!
Grandpa/Dad/Jim
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You said a mouthful.
Thanks, Jim. Sorry it took so long to write it.
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A great reflection and many words of wisdom. I nod my head reading your words, as they speak how I feel or what I would say. Hey, loud is good! I’m with you on this one, Steve. Thank you for a great post.
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Jennie, so glad we ‘connected’ on this one. Not only is loud ‘good’, but at this stage of life, it’s necessary. Thanks for your nice words and encouragement.
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Oh Steve, you always make me laugh! And warm my heart. Best to you!
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Our pubs are closing at a rate of knots
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Thanks, Derrick. This place was a sports bar but we’ll return to the corner bar (pub, if you will), next time. By the way, im not familiar with the term, ‘at a rate of knots’. Please explain.
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It means going very fast, having its origin in maritime use, Steve. Thanks a lot
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Thanks, Derrick. Sometimes I use the expression ‘faster than a bum on a baloney sandwich’ which has its roots in silly humor (or do you say ‘humour’?) 😜 have a great week, Derrick.
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🙂 Thanks a lot Steve. Sounds the same whichever way you spell it. 🙂
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I’m not much of a bar person simply because the noise level at my “hearing” age (I spent way too much of the 60’s at loud concerts near the sound system go go dancing) leaves a bit to be desired.
I have taken to offering an intimate spot in my home where we can visit and converse without ending the night with laryngitis.
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I hear ya’, Linda (or, maybe I don’t). My hearing on the left is la king because of a surgery years ago. Of course, listening to loud music didn’t help, either. Thanks so much for sharing your comment.
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A great post, Steve, most enjoyable and I love Curious George. BTW, even I from the bottom of the dark continent, know the expression “at a rate of knots” (tee hee).
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Oh, we’re lucky to have you seniors! You bring a wise perspective and up our overall IQ:). But I did have to laugh because whether it’s Starbucks outdoor courtyard or the local wine bar, there always seems to be a group of loud senior men settling the world’s problems. I could picture the scene as you described it:).
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Well, we certainly ‘up’ something. But I’ve seen those same loud guys…OMG, is that us?😂. Thanks, Kristine, I’m glad I painted that mental image.
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I don’t picture you being quite as loud :-). And definitely not quite as bossy :-).
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You got me pegged!😎
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Aww, I go to a local bar dive for seniors and the college nearby has open minded students who like our oldies but goodies. . . 🎼🎶
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I just stretched it a little to make a fun story
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I’m thinking it was the Curious George sweatshirt. 😀 Bloviate is such a great word.
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I agree. I had research that word and I’m still not sure it was the right word for what I was saying but I liked it too much not to use it. 😂 glad you liked it, too.
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